interesting

"...Jesus was saying that the law isn't what is important. Love is what is important. If we love God, love our neighbor, and love ourselves (in that order), then we can live far above any set of rules or regulations. We have freedom to live apart from any legalistic standards when we live by the spirit of love. Paul echoed this form of 'freedom with responsibility' when he wrote:

"Everything is permissible" - but not everything is beneficial. "Everything is permissible" - but not everything is constructive. Nobody should seek his own good, but the good of others. (1 Corinthians 10:23-24).

Paul was saying that you can do most anything, but it isn't always in your best interest or in the interest of others. Focus not on what is 'allowed,' but on what is best for all involved.

QUESTIONS OF COMPROMISE: don't ask
-Are my actions lawful?
-Will anyone find out?
-Would anyone condemn me?
-Is this socially acceptable?
-How can I get what I want?
-Will this hurt anyone?

QUESTIONS OF INTEGRITY: do ask
-Are my actions loving to others?
-Is this something I'd be proud of?
-Is this my highest standard?
-Is this in line with my convictions?
-What is my motive for wanting this?
-Will this benefit others?
We must look beyond the movements to the motivations behind our actions. By doing this, we no longer have to concern ourselves with the law because we are acting by a higher standard, a standard of love." -Shannon Ethridge